Transitioning to Sparhawk Middle School
by Kaitlyn MacDonald, Assistant Headmaster
“What if no one likes me?”
“What if I don’t know where to go?”
“What if it is too hard?”
We hear questions like these from our fifth graders each year. We hear them and, according to the National Education Association (NEA), so do most elementary school teachers and parents. One of the most challenging school transitions is the moment when an elementary school child steps up to become the young adolescent of middle school. For us, this particular transition is so challenging because they are leaving their beloved lower campus with its traditions and buildings, their teachers and class structures that are known, that are trusted, that are familiar. The upper campus feels different. Both by virtue of being a newer property for our school, but also by virtue of the fact that these same kids are about to be ready for a shift and a change, for a time when they begin to be agents of their educational experience. The harder thing to explain to these incredible people, is that they are on the edge of everything changing, not just campuses. How they see the world and themselves; how they interact with parents and peers; how their minds access internal and external stimuli--all of this is about to shift and grow. To put it simply: it is hard time in a kid’s life. And as a result, it can also be a hard time in a parent’s life, as well.
This is why it is so important for us to help our students feel heard, to see themselves as “stakeholders” in this transition. NEA created an eight point plan to help ensure successful attrition into middle grades programs. Below, I will delineate how Sparhawk has responded to these points. As you read, know that we are here for you and your child during this time. It won’t always be easy. We won’t always agree. But we know that you are committed to your child becoming the best version of themselves that is possible. We are, too.
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Sparhawk Action Plan |
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At Sparhawk, we offer two “Step-up Days” for fifth grade students. These are opportunities for our fifth graders to experience what a Middle School day feels like. Our team of teachers are welcoming and dedicated to developing the skills and talents of their students. In addition to these visit days, fifth graders have shared Enrichment Time with our Middle School students. This allows our fifth graders weekly interaction with this peer group and the teachers throughout the year. |
Current middle school students also should be prepared for and included in orientation presentations--through a leadership/student government class, a “buddy” system, or other planned ways. |
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We are lucky to meet as a staff for a week in June after students depart and one and half weeks in August prior to student arrival. During this time, our faculty are able to communicate about each student’s specific strengths, challenges, and goals for the new year. Given the amount of time our Middle School staff spends with our fifth grade students, they have the advantage of also building a relationship with the students before they are registered in their classes. |
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The teacher that stops learning is the teacher who is no longer capable of teaching. Our staff attends trainings on campus and off on topics such as childhood development, experiential education, educating the anxious, progressive education, project-based learning, executive functioning supports, and a variety of other issues related to the middle school student experience. Periodically, we will share with you our resources. Know that we appreciate greatly when parents share the resources that they find! |
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We are happy to share with you the research that inspires our pedagogy. It is so important for us to share with each other the unique challenges and concerns that you have for your own child. Middle School students experience many of the same things that we did when we were that age, but they also are experiencing unique challenges that most of us did not. Social media and the expanse of technology have provided so many positive elements to our lives and yet, also an equal amount of challenges, particularly during this time of adolescence when identity challenges and social/emotional wellness can be so preoccupying, often debilitating, and overall, a minefield of ups and downs. In the end, after working with hundreds of children, we can tell you that it is going to be okay. Together, we can help your child grow up into the person they are destined to be. We need to work together. We need to help your child see their authentic selves. We need to help them laugh and give them space to cry; support them when they need silence, but be sure to give them space to speak when they need to share. |
Resources:
http://www.nea.org/tools/16657.htm
https://www.edutopia.org/article/easing-shift-elementary-middle-school